Marriage is not about the booty

I am amazed that this concept baffles people. Now, the booty does have something to do with it, you have to be content with the booty you are married to. No doubt. But you can not marry just for the booty or lack of other booty opportunities.

I just want to make a point really quick. Got a guy working for me... he's young, good looking, sloppy as all get out, but can pull some leg. He had a girlfriend for years and they were constantly off and on. I mean twice a month they were broke up, then back together, then broke up and back together. That went on for years. They both cheated (repeatedly) and kept on with being on one day and off the next.

They eventually seperated and she moved off. His response? A ring, marriage and commitment. She moved back and they got married. Would you believe they divorced like a year later?

So now he is with another. Nobody likes her. She is loud, demanding, obnoxious, and he can't leave her because she is giving him booty. Yes, she looks good. She is toned and very strong and I think she should be boxing. She is a bitch.

He worked hard for the booty and has to play the situation carefully. He has spent a shit-load of money to help her or keep her happy. He even resorted to saying the sacred phrase (I heart U). Tonight he talked about another woman that he would really "love" to be with.

Men, look past the bedroom. Find someone that has some damn sense; that you, your family and friends can tolerate and you can be with. If your girlfriend is a righteous bitch and you really don't intend to be with her forever, don't tell her you love her and leave her in a state of "marriage suspense".

"T", I love you, have no problem at all and can't wait to be with you every day (again).